All posts by Frank Rubenfeld

“Kino” by Murakami, with a nod to I.B. Singer

This is the latest published (in English) short story by Haruki Murakami, and is part of the 90th Anniversary issue of the New Yorker. It’s the only fiction piece in that giant issue, and reflects his standing in the New Yorker pantheon of contemporary writers.

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Appreciating the Best of the French

No question, it is tricky teaching skepticism and free inquiry in a manner that encourages both. It might even involve being skeptical about skepticism. Fair enough. Everything is up for grabs, and one goes on, knowing that is so.

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Defiant humility

Defiant humility may appear to be an oxymoron, but in an age of know-it-alls, it has its place.   The short story “Their Ancient, Glittering Eyes” by Ron Rash is a wonderful example of the defeat of the know-it-alls, and demonstrates how we are all prone to taking on that role. Many short stories of […]

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Birdman

This is an amazing movie that pushes you along with it, thanks to the long camera pans that often have you looking over someone’s shoulder.

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Into the woods

The movie was a pleasant surprise for me. A fairy tale for grown-ups .. written, directed, and acted by them .. for us.

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“Preparations for the Next Life” by Atticus Lish

This Is a book that I mentally and emotionally clambered over and wriggled through in a three day intensive work-out. I’ve never spent time in a gym where people use weights to add muscle to one part of their anatomy or other. I imagine I never will, being seventy-eight and satisfied with staying home to do my sit-ups and push-ups. But I can now say that I definitely got more than a whiff of what that kind of work-out entails, as a result of reading this debut novel of Atticus Lish.

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Humility

I wish to humbly offer my definition of humility. Although it would be tempting to define it by what it isn’t, I will resist that temptation.

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Three Approaches to Doing Gestalt Therapy

I’m currently reading an excellent book, “Destiny Disrupted”, by the Afghan American scholar, Tamim Ansary. The book is a history of the civilized world as seen from a Muslim perspective. Ansary writes as if he is an honored guest in one’s living room. In other words, although the content is heavy the delivery is light and easy.

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A More Spacious Gestalt

A More Spacious Gestalt : Integrating Polarities

 In this short paper I will focus on  meta-behaviors that were stressed in the Gestalt work of Fritz Perls. Fritz was very much a man of his times, and during the last years of his life he echoed and advanced attitudes that reflected the counter-culture of the late sixties.

His stress on individuating and self-support epitomized in his adage: “You do your thing, I do my thing” could be seen, in part, as a reaction against the conformist group-think that was an inherent part of Nixon’s “silent majority” of Americans. His personal objections to anybody telling him how to think or what to do were also well known.

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Three Incidents

Having lived for close to eighty years, I’ve reached a point where I can rest on a metaphoric ledge, contemplate my past, and attempt to identify the motifs that have made my intellectual-spiritual life what it is today.The nudge that prompted me to write this essay was a serendipitous experience reported to me by a client. His extraordinary experience involved discovering an “art tree” in an out-of-the way location decorated with numerous canvases. That encounter enabled him to see himself and the world in a hopeful new way. How to maintain that new way of perceiving the world became the subject of our conversation.

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